Note: This guide mostly applies to Christians but can help for non-christians too – How to Find The One Christian Edition Video By Mar Mari Emmanuel. (yt link)

Quick Takeaways

“If your heart starts to dance SHE IS THE ONE”

If your heart beat out of a 10 scale like a huge earthquake, the moment your eyes fell into this gazelle, heart starts shaking, knees gone sweating. — There’s something there.

Don’t Rush In A Relationship

Love at first sight is a good indication she is the one, BUT not NECESSARILY be the one. Take small steps and with time it’ll tell you if she’s the one. Ask god.


Books of Proverbs 31;10-31 NIV

Proverbs 31:10-31 is a passage from the Bible that describes the qualities of a virtuous woman, often referred to as the “wife of noble character.” It highlights her strength, wisdom, industriousness, and the respect she earns from her family and community.

  • [10] A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
  • [11] Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
  • [12] She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
  • [13] She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
  • [14] She is like the merchant ships  bringing her food from afar.
  • [15] She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
  • [16] She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
  • [17] She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
  • [18] She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
  • [19] In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
  • [20]She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
  • [21] When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
  • [22] She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
  • [23] Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
  • [24] She makes linen garments and sells them  and supplies the merchants with sashes.
  • [25] She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
  • [26] She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
  • [27] She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
  • [28] Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
  • [29] “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
  • [30] Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
  • [31] Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Seek a virtuous women. What does this mean? Finding a women that loves Jesus Christ. She can never be bad to you because the lord is in her heart, teaching her to be good.

Obviously, look for looks at a certain degree BUT DON’T focus on the external looks rather the internal looks. (personality)

“Is it for the world or is it for the lord?”

If a relationship is not build on Christ they will not last. If it last, they will last with a lot of troubles.

TL;DR

If she loves Jesus you hit the jackpot.

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